Would you lose interest in your girl if she slept with you before marriage?

This post is talking in general this certainly isn’t true for every man. The interesting topic of debate lately has been whether making love before marriage can cause the relationship to fail. So you love this girl and you guys have been dating for about a year now but She hasn’t been intimate with you. Most girls will take the sexual relationship slow for fear that should you decide to turn your back on her for marriage then things may be different. Some girls in the name of love and being totally emotional will actually make love with their guy before marriage. Society would look as this as Tabbo. The question here is why should only a girl have to worry about the love making process. Why should guys not have the same border lines. Do guys still want their wedding night to be with the so called Pure person?

If your answer is YES then please respect your girl’s wishes and make sure never to ask her to make love to you till the day you get married. Also make sure that you don’t indulge in any sex activity prior to marriage. Its suppose to be scared and for that special someone. If you are in love and know for a fact that she is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with then by all means go ahead but keep your promise of marriage.

The next point to note is that if a girl does have sex before she gets married we should not look down on this person. Sex is not the only valid point for a human to exist, a lot of factors need to be taken into account. There are guys who love sex and would do it with any and everyone, then there are guys who are timid and shy but are faithful to the nth degree, there are guys who may not look good but have a heart of gold, while you could find guys who look good but don’t give a damn about others.

The same way you have girls who show they are innocent and speak with a sweet voice and guys fall for this, these girls in fact could be having a relationship with more than one guy but who would guess right? then you find girls who appear to be very forward and guys get the wrong impression, these girls could have a heart of gold and would go to any degree to help out a friend, so don’t make judgments of love depending on when a person made love.

Instead love a person for who they are and for what you are receiving and giving in a relationship. Create a bond that is spiritual and based on friendship rather than sex. If you can achieve this in your relationship and look at people through a refresh mentality, it will take you to higher heights

All the best!!!!